Is it hard for you to ask for something? Typically, men are known for not asking for directions because they like to figure them out by themselves. Women often ask, “How do I look?” in hope of affirming their value. Children, on the other hand, boldly and persistently ask for everything because they see no limitations to life. What have you been asking lately?

 Years ago, in the midst of having five children that the doctors said I could never have, I gradually lost my eyesight with each birth. I had to learn to ask for help. This did not come easily for I was skilled in independence. At first, I was embarrassed for anyone to think I may have a weakness, fearing that my life would not look perfect. My value was based on the way I looked and not on who I was. In time, I learned that life is about a team effort and everyone has need of others.

 Asking for help engages others in greatness and purpose. If I ask for a man’s arm to help me be ushered into a meeting or onto a stage where I am to speak to an audience, it allows the man to look like a gentlemen robed in valor. If I ask my family for assistance, my children learn to serve the needs of others. If I have need of a ride from a friend, we engage in conversation, and I have an opportunity to encourage my driver as I take interest in his/her life. The last time I drove I had to ask the passenger to tell me where the road was. Sometimes you need to ask for help so no one is hurt. You may need their eyes and perspective to succeed. Just ask!

 Is there something you have been wanting to ask?

When you choose to look beyond the horizon… the sky is the limit!

First published for the Zig Ziglar Network